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Stav, kdy se opro\u0161\u0165ujeme od p\u0159\u00e1tel, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1m byli d\u0159\u00edve bl\u00edzc\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt d\u00e1n nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u00edm, […]","datePublished":"2022-01-02","dateModified":"2022-01-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kushitani.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.kushitani.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7b7a3ac09da7f6a75c5f1ebec5be454c22943a51b9f5595d89318ef09bd44dd1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7b7a3ac09da7f6a75c5f1ebec5be454c22943a51b9f5595d89318ef09bd44dd1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kushitani.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kushitani.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/bl%C3%ADzc%C3%AD%20p%C5%99%C3%A1tel%C3%A9.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kushitani.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/bl%C3%ADzc%C3%AD%20p%C5%99%C3%A1tel%C3%A9.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kushitani.cz\/smysl-zachovani-pratelstvi\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":454,"articleBody":"\u010clov\u011bk se \u010dasto ocitne v situaci, kdy se s lidmi, kter\u00fdmi je obklopen, nec\u00edt\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b stoprocentn\u011b uvoln\u011bn\u011b a dob\u0159e. N\u011bkdy se ani nemus\u00ed st\u00e1t n\u011bjak\u00e1 p\u0159evratn\u00e1 ud\u00e1lost, kter\u00e1 tomuto stavu p\u0159edch\u00e1z\u00ed, ale p\u0159esto se s dan\u00fdmi lidmi u\u017e nesouzn\u00edme. Stav, kdy se opro\u0161\u0165ujeme od p\u0159\u00e1tel, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1m byli d\u0159\u00edve bl\u00edzc\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt d\u00e1n nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u00edm, \u017ee se najednou nalezneme v jin\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed situaci nebo se zkr\u00e1tka rozhodneme j\u00edt natolik jinou cestou, \u017ee u\u017e nejsme schopni zachovat kontakt. M\u016f\u017ee se to st\u00e1t nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159est\u011bhov\u00e1n\u00edm do jin\u00e9ho m\u011bsta, rozhodnut\u00edm absolvov\u00e1n\u00ed vysoko\u0161kolsk\u00e9ho vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di dramati\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed zm\u011bny jako narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte.N\u011bkdy ale sta\u010d\u00ed nepatrn\u00e1 zm\u011bna a my se od na\u0161eho p\u0159\u00edtele za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me distancovat a vad\u00ed n\u00e1m spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 kon\u00e1 a podobn\u011b. Nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b jednoduch\u00e9 tento jev vysv\u011btlit, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt toti\u017e mnoho d\u016fvod\u016f a v\u017edy je nutno zn\u00e1t kompletn\u00ed kontext situace. Jedno z mo\u017en\u00fdch vysv\u011btlen\u00ed je, \u017ee jsme ment\u00e1ln\u011b za\u010dali rychleji dosp\u00edvat a s kamar\u00e1dem, kter\u00fd na tom nen\u00ed stejn\u011b jako my si pomalu p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1me rozum\u011bt. Je to dlouhodob\u00fd proces a ze dne na den bychom tuto zm\u011bnu ur\u010dit\u011b nezpozorovali av\u0161ak v del\u0161\u00edm \u010dasov\u00e9m horizontu je to zm\u011bna z\u00e1sadn\u00ed.V \u00favodu je ji\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bno jak jsou mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy k\u0159ehk\u00e9. Je to zp\u016fsobeno zejm\u00e9na r\u016fzn\u00fdm prost\u0159ed\u00edm, kde jsme vyr\u016fstali a t\u00edm i r\u016fzn\u00fdmi vnit\u0159n\u00edmi neduhy. Ka\u017ed\u00fd jinak reaguje na rozli\u010dn\u00e9 situace a hodn\u011b z t\u011bchto reakc\u00ed je zalo\u017eeno na stylu v\u00fdchovy, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m bylo jako mal\u00fdm poskytnuta. Je nemo\u017en\u00e9 vychovat jedince, kter\u00fd by byl \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd by ide\u00e1ln\u011b reagoval na v\u0161echny situace, tak\u017ee je velmi zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 pozorovat jak se lid\u00e9 chovaj\u00ed a \u010d\u00edm je toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed ovlivn\u011bno v n\u00e1vaznosti na jejich minulost.Kdy\u017e se tedy ocitneme v situaci, kdy se pomalu distancujeme od na\u0161ich b\u00fdval\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel, jeliko\u017e c\u00edt\u00edme, \u017ee si s nimi nejsme tak bl\u00edzko jako d\u0159\u00edve, v\u011bt\u0161inou nen\u00ed pot\u0159eba konat \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 velk\u00e9 \u010diny, jeliko\u017e druh\u00e1 strana uc\u00edt\u00ed nezvykl\u00fd chlad v na\u0161em chov\u00e1n\u00ed a dojde j\u00ed, \u017ee se n\u011bco zm\u011bnilo i kdy\u017e si to mo\u017en\u00e1 ani jedna strana nedok\u00e1\u017ee vysv\u011btlit.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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